The 21 Laws of Successful Relationships

by Dr. Brenda Shoshanna, Ph.D.

For many people, love is a mystery. Even when they do all they can, obstacles often arise that they cannot control, putting unexpected strains on their relationship. Relationships that started out so perfectly can mysteriously feel as if they are beginning to fall apart.

Love is the great mirror, and it makes us stop and reflect. As a building needs a strong foundation, so does a healthy relationship. And yet so many jump into relationships wanting to fly to the peak without having any understanding of how to build a strong foundation that will allow their relationship to stand tall and strong.

When the 21 laws of love are understood and practiced, they can help repair any relationship, at any stage. As we follow the concrete wisdom and practical exercises in this book, suffering can be dissolved as we see that our pain isn't truly coming from the relationship, and that all relationships can experience healing.


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Save Your Relationship offers information, discussion, guidelines and wonderful exercises which help you apply the material in your daily life. As you absorb the information, you will become clear about how to get to the core truth of your situation, how to choose wisely, and how to dissolve negative relationship patterns that seem to repeat endlessly.

Save Your Relationship offers psychological, spiritual and practical wisdom. You will discover a time tested program for learning what real steps to take to make your relationships healthy, constructive and life-giving--under all circumstances. 

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About Dr. Brenda Shoshanna, Ph. D.

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Books in the Peace of Mind genre

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A psychologist and therapist for 28 years, Dr. Brenda Shoshanna published work has integrated psychology and spirituality in facing life's crucial questions. She is the author of numerous books in the spirituality, zen, psychology and relationship genres. In the Peace of Mind genre, she is author of NO PROBLEM, NO WORRY: The Zen Road to Happiness, LIVING BY ZEN, ZEN MIRACLES, FEARLESS: 7 Principles of Peace Of Mind, THE ANGER DIET: 30 Days To Stress Free Living (listed as one of the best books of the year by Spirituality and Health), and EVERYDAY GRATITUDE. In the Relationship genre, she is author of ZEN AND THE ART OF FALLING IN LOVE, WHY MEN LEAVE, GETTING HIM TO TALK, SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP and THE HAPPY MARRIAGE MANUAL. In the Spirituality genre, she is author of JEWISH DHARMA: A Guide to the Practice of Judaism and Zen, and of COMPASSIONATE CARE: Emotional, Psychological and Spiritual Guidance During Times of Illness and Loss.

Her books all offer psychological and spiritual guidance, combining spiritual wisdom with psychological insight and practical advice. She has received widespread critical-acclaim for all of her books, with excellent reviews from publications such as Tricycle, Publishers Weekly, Body & Soul and others, and she has won the NABE Award for the Best Book of the Year in the Category of Health. Her books have been translated into 18 languages, and she appears frequently on national television, in national print, and in major venues online (she is the Relationship Expert on She has spoken and taught at many universities and has offered over 500 talks and workshops nationally on all aspects of psychology, spirituality and fulfilling one's potential. She also hosted her own radio show on the Gary Null network, which offered her a weekly platform to address a wide range of issues dealing with spirituality and self-help. 

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